Finding Peace in a World of Worry

Jesus concludes His comparison of treasures in heaven and treasures on earth with a simple statement – you cannot serve God and wealth. He then goes on to challenge the pursuit of wealth by saying, “Do not be worried about your life, as to what you will eat or what you will drink; nor for your body, as to what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?” (Matthew 6:25) Interestingly, the life Jesus is speaking of is not the day-to-day life which would have been rendered in Greek as zoe (the totality of life) or perhaps even bios (physical life) but rather psyche (the soul, the inmost being of an individual.) Jesus is addressing the spiritual and eternal aspect of life found only in human beings. And what He is saying is to not worry about the things of this world but focus on the things of God.

The Greek word usually translated as being worried or anxious – merimnao – actually means, at its root, divided, distracted, or torn apart. And therein lie our anxious thoughts and worries. Worry is when our minds are torn apart, divided, and pulled in different directions by a situation or circumstance or thoughts that don’t align with our expectations. Lack of information, poor information, past experiences that have shaped our thinking processes, and a host of other variables cause our brains to kick into overdrive trying to make sense of the nonsense or, at the very minimum, look for the best path to mental and emotional peace and safety. However, peace is NOT the ultimate result of worry.

Peace comes when we focus totally and completely on Jesus. As we read in Isaiah 26:3, “You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on you,

because he trusts in you.” Jesus said it this way in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”

So, how do you find peace in a world of worry? Follow with wisdom and understanding Matthew 6:33-34. First of all, focus your full and undivided attention on Jesus and His Kingdom through His righteousness and all of the things that might distract you will no longer be your concern, but God’s and He will provide the things you need.

Secondly, don’t be distracted by the things that are looming large on your horizon. They may or may not come, but that’s not your concern because

you’re not staring at them – you’re eyes are focused on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith, and He will provide all you need today AND tomorrow.

This Bible study was presented to the Agape Life Bible Study Class of the First Baptist Church in Brenham, Texas, on Sunday, November 8, 2026. It is part of a series in a Bible study curriculum called Connect 360, published by the GC2 Press of the Baptist General Convention of Texas. The overall title of the current set of lessons, which covers Chapters 5-7 in the Book of Matthew, is Kingdom Power: The Sermon on the Mount. You can find print and digital versions of this series online at https://gc2press.org/kingdom-power-matthew-5-7-digital-study-guide/ . Handouts with class presentation content can be requested at: fromthebackporchintexas@gmail.com . Handouts are also available at: fromthebackporch.org .

Transcript:

Finally, peace in the world of worry.

Matthew, 6:25-34, is where we are today.

We want to go ahead and open up the Bibles, that’s fine.

This is the session outlined.

The essence of life, the essence of anxiety,

and undivided focus on Jesus.

Therefore, I tell you, do not worry about your life,

what you will eat, what you will drink,

or your body, what you will wear.

It’s not life more important than food,

and the body more important than clothes.

Look at the birds of the air.

They do not sew, or reap, or store away in barns,

and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.

Are you not much more valuable than them?

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

And why do you worry about clothes?

See how the lilies of the field grow?

They do not labor or spin.

Yet I tell you, that not even Solomon in all of his splendor

was dressed like one of these.

If that is how God closed the grass of the field,

which is here today, and tomorrow is thrown into the fire,

will he not much more close you?

Oh, you have little faith.

So do not worry, saying, what shall we eat,

what shall we drink, or what shall we wear,

for the pagans run after all these things,

and your heavenly Father knows that you need them,

but seek first his kingdom, and his righteousness,

and all these things will be given to you as well.

Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow,

or tomorrow will worry about itself.

Each day has enough trouble on its own.

So what’s the overall message?

Don’t worry.

Don’t worry.

Don’t worry.

Be happy now.

No, what else you got?

What else you see there?

Overall, what?

He provides.

He knows what we need.

Greek life.

I’m not talking about college, Greek life.

That’s a whole new football game right there.

Right, Greek life in college, right?

You understand?

But I’m talking about Greek as it relates to the word life.

Right?

Looking verse 25, and you’ll see that he’s talking about life.

So I need you to know– I need you to know

about these three verbs.

These are the predominant words for life in Greek.

Zoe, Bios, and psychic chippy.

Look at the definitions of them.

Zoe is life.

It’s your living existence.

It’s biological, it’s just kind of a combination.

Bios– it’s where we get our word biology.

So that ought to help you with that one, right?

Bios is your physical life, right?

Psychie.

What word do you think we get from that?

Psychology?

Yeah.

It has to do with the soul, the mind,

the inner self, the inner essence of who you are, OK?

So I want you to do a little looking at your scripture there.

Tell me which word, in verse 25, which one of these Greek words

did Jesus use?

Which one do you think?

He uses the word psyche.

Now, I see the cognitive dissonance settling in,

because you’re saying, no.

He says about your life.

What you’re going to eat?

What you’re going to drink?

Isn’t that right?

Isn’t that what you’re saying?

Wouldn’t that come more under Zoey?

Just basic life, living, living, wasn’t it, right?

Or what you eat and drink?

Could be bios, because it’s biological.

But what?

The word you’re part of you say.

Does he eat more because it’s not life, wasn’t food?

Yes, he does.

Same word, same word, psyche.

Guys, I want you to keep that in mind.

I want you to keep it in mind.

Because it has to do– somebody, I heard someone say it.

It has to do with the fact that his main focus

is the worries in your life, the anxieties in your life.

OK?

But then we got to look at the Greek word.

It’s just for anxiety.

I’m sorry.

But you really need to.

You really need to.

And this one is really kind of cool.

And I think you’re going to appreciate me bringing it in.

I hope you’re going to appreciate me bringing it in.

OK?

The Greek word that’s translated through this for worry

is merimno, merimno.

OK?

You see it right up here?

Merimno.

And literally, the word means anxiety or worry, right?

Anxiety or worry.

You’ll notice I have to be distracted.

I put that in there intentionally, intentionally,

because of the way all of these things play out.

It’s an attack of the cognates.

I know.

I know David knows what the cognates are.

The cognates– and we have them in English, too.

I’m going to show you one in English.

A cognate– or cognates– are words that are distinct words

with distinct definitions that somewhere back in the ancient

languages have a connection.

In this one, all three come from the ancient root word,

mer– or a lot of times, it’s smear, OK?

And if you look at the first three letters in these words,

you see it?

They all come from that same root word, OK?

Now, that word means to be mindful of or remember.

So you’re saying, OK, no big deal yet.

This is where it gets really interesting.

Over time, these two merged in meaning.

They merged in meaning and became associated with this word.

So that, so that when you heard this word,

the inference about these two words came into play, OK?

Stay with me.

I mean, we are in the weeds.

You got your machetes out.

Are you chopping?

Are you chopping?

Stay with me.

Do you notice that one of these is divide or split

into parts, right?

Mediz.

Mediz apart our portion, OK?

In other words, there’s division there, right?

That’s how distraction came to be associated with the meaning

behind that word, because you’ve got dividing thoughts

or a division of thoughts in your mind

and it becomes worried and anxiety.

Here’s the English version.

Just so you all understand what cognates are.

I think you’ll understand it more from an English.

The Latin root is tindendre, right?

Which means to stretch, OK?

In addition to these words, there’s other words like tinde.

There’s other words that come.

But those words, tension, tend, attention, distract.

You wouldn’t think of those words as necessarily

having the same root, and yet they do.

All of them do.

And it shows you how this outline here

shows you how those words are related to the term stretch.

Tension, a state of being stretched tight, right?

Tend to lean or stretch toward a particular direction.

OK, you tend toward this one.

That means you’re tending away from something else.

Attention– I love this word–

partially because of what we’re reading right now.

That’s one of the things that has come out.

Attention, stretching your mind toward one specific object

you’re thought, distract.

It’s actually this tindendre, but it means the same thing.

So when someone suffers from anxiety,

their attention is broken because their mind

is pulled in competing directions, or competing tensions.

And that’s it.

Isn’t that similar to what I was just describing with?

To me, it is.

If it’s not, I’m sorry.

But to me, it makes sense, because it’s

the same kind of concept.

We have, in the root, in the root of the word, distraction.

We have, in the root of the word, a divided mind.

We have a division of thought, right?

So drawn in opposite directions, divided into parts,

to go to pieces, pull apart like the force exerted

by sinful anxiety or worry.

And it’s an old form, an old verb form for worry and anxiety,

literally, to be divided or distracted.

Just so you know, I ain’t making this stuff up.

I’m giving you the reference.

OK, those quotes are Robertson’s from that, OK?

This is a guy who’s studied this stuff.

A team rough– David’s going, yeah.

He’s a little son of a– I didn’t know he was

a Southern Baptist.

Anyway, he died about 100 years ago or something like that.

But anyway, his work is still valid.

British still–

Do what?

Greek is still Greek.

Greek is still Greek, exactly, exactly.

So do you understand?

That’s the word that’s being used.

And it means all of those students.

Now, I want you to think about when you get worried about

something.

At the base, isn’t that what’s happening?

When you’re anxious about something, you’ve got a thought.

OK, let’s use an example.

One that I personally have never experienced.

When your child who is old enough to drive now

is an hour late getting home.

Yes.

And he is still not called.

What?

She has to not call it that, right?

You start to worry.

You become a little bit anxious.

Why?

Because you have a preconceived notion

of what is supposed to happen at, let’s say, 11 p.m.

At 11 p.m., your child comes to the door

and everybody goes to bed.

That’s what should happen.

That has not happened.

You’ve already divided your thoughts.

What should?

What did?

OK?

Then, what starts happening?

Your brain kicks into overdrive.

I mean, your brain really goes nuts thinking about all

of the different possibilities, right?

And all of a sudden, you switch from your frontal orchette.

You switch to your amygdala.

You switch to that brain stand and the thoughts that start

popping into your brain are what you did when you were out

on your own, am I right?

Am I right?

You do.

And you start having these thoughts that start running.

I think you remember what happened to you.

And then you remember what happened to you.

And you did get home and then you started thinking,

what am I going to do when I got it?

And all of a sudden, there’s the all of these thoughts

that are going in all different directions

and pulling you in all different directions.

And eventually, you go nuts.

That worry, that anxiety that kicks in.

And it’s the same thing.

You know, your car breaks down.

You know how much money you have in the bank?

You know how much it’s going to cost.

The mechanic tells you, you don’t have that kind of money.

How are you going to do it?

What are you going to do about it?

And all of these different thoughts come in

and they start pulling you in different directions

what you need to do this, what you need to do this,

what you need to do that, what you think.

Why don’t you do this?

Have you thought about this?

And then you’ve got your friends who are also

in starting their own little thoughts into your brain.

I’m not going to say your spouse.

I’m not going to say that.

No, that doesn’t happen at all, ever.

Guys, that’s what worry is, right?

I mean, it’s a– I want to show you some examples

of how that work was used.

And specifically, I want to give you– I just

gave you an example from your life.

I want to give you an example that was in the Bible.

Luke 10 verses 40 and 41.

Do you remember this story?

You remember what’s going on there?

Martha is busy getting the house ready, right?

And guess who’s not helping?

Right.

OK.

And she’s been serious about it.

She says, Martha was distracted.

Now, that’s a different word.

That’s not the same word, OK?

Martha was distracted.

And it’s a word that means distracted.

I put it up– yeah, it’s up there– in parentheses.

With all her preparations, yeah?

You’ve been there.

You’ve been there when you get ready for a company.

My nephew and his wife are coming to see us tomorrow.

You’ve got to get stuff ready.

What’s OK for panning me to bump about in the house?

That ain’t good enough, OK?

We’ve got to get ready.

We’ve got to get ready for them to come.

We’ve got to rearrange the plants on the back porch.

We’ve got to do that.

It’s just weird stuff.

She was busy with her preparations.

And she came up to Jesus and said, Lord, do you not

care that my sister has left me to do all the preparations

alone?

And where was she?

Can you please–

See what was Jesus?

That’s a pretty bold statement, isn’t it?

Lord, do you not care that she ain’t helping me?

The Lord answered her and said, Martha, Martha, you are worried.

There it is.

There’s the word.

You are worried and bothered about so many things.

You are so distracted.

You’re missing Jesus in the room.

Does that not paint a picture?

Don’t.

We get so busy and distracted sometimes

that we miss Jesus in the room with us.

Wow.

Wow.

There’s a sermon there.

I don’t know– you know, I ain’t no precinct.

But there’s a sermon there.

Yeah, if Christmas can become that, can it?

And all of the preparation and all of the hurried,

all the stuff we’re doing and all the stuff

we’re making and all the stuff, we’re decorating and all that.

And we do it all.

And yeah, Jesus can get lost in that, OK?

First Peter, Peter uses the word.

Most of your translations will say, cast all your tears on him.

Same word, worries, distractions, right?

So things that eat away at you.

Those things that pestle you.

Those things that come up and you don’t know.

And you don’t see a way out.

There is no viable way out.

Cares of this world.

I think it’s interesting that Peter was actually quoting the Psalms.

Do you know that?

I thought somebody said something.

Cast your cares on the Lord, and he will sustain you.

He will never let the righteous be shaken.

When you look at that, in its entirety,

what he’s saying, because he cares for you, it’s saying this,

isn’t it?

He’s just using different– he’s abbreviating it.

Previating the statement.

He cares for you.

He will sustain you.

He will not let you be shaken.

Wow.

I’ll say this in for free.

This is one of my favorite verses.

And I’ve used it.

I don’t know how many different times in talking with people.

I was young, and now I’m old.

I like to say it in that part, but now that I’m old, right?

When I was young, I couldn’t say it, but now I can say it.

I was young, and now I’m old, that I’ve

never seen the righteous forsaken

or their children begging for bread.

The fact is, you can cast all of your cares.

Whatever it is that you have, you

can cast all your cares on Jesus, OK?

Because he cares for you.

He will sustain you.

He will be the solid rock on which you can stand

and not be shaken.

That’s who Jesus is.

Worry is when your mind is torn apart divided

and pulled in different directions by a situation

or circumstance or thoughts that don’t align

with your expectations.

Lack of information, poor information,

past experiences that have shaped your thinking

and past experiences that have shaped your thinking processes.

And a host of other variables–

these all cause your brain to kick into overdrive,

trying to make sense of nonsense at the very minimum and look

for the path of mental and emotional peace and safety.

That’s what’s happening, because what we want

is to return to a state of peace.

So let’s talk about peace and the word of God,

because peace is not the ultimate result of word.

You might think it is in the heat of the moment.

You might think, if I just think about this enough,

I will arrive at a solution that brings peace to my world.

Like how I’m standing in front of you, fall with the hood of it and you’re staring at me?

Exactly, exactly.

If you stare at it long enough, it will repair itself.

That’s probably why that’s solved, and it says I don’t know what you’re doing,

but I know what you’ve already done.

Yes, yes.

Yes, yes.

OK.

Now, those are pretty words up there.

Peace is not the ultimate result of worry.

You’re still wanting peace, so aren’t you?

OK, let’s see if we can nail it down before we get out of here.

How about it?

Philippians 4, 6, and 7.

By the way, look at these in your Bible.

Look at these in your Bible.

In Philippians 4, 6, and 7, he says, be anxious, and there’s that word.

Be anxious for nothing but in everything but prayer and petition with thanksgiving.

Let’s request be made known to God, and the peace of God, which suppresses all comprehension,

will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Now, when we pray, and we turn it over to the Lord, and say, this is in your hands,

I don’t have a solution, but I know you do.

I don’t have a way out, but I know you’ll provide one.

I don’t know which way to turn, but you know which way is best.

When you turn it over to Jesus, OK?

You can’t know that peace.

What is the problem with just saying those words?

Leave me.

I’ve shared with you all before.

When I was fixing to go in for prostate surgery, the peace of God that flooded over me when

I was at that point and said, Lord, I know that I could possibly die in this situation.

Give me your peace.

And the peace flooded me in such a way that I actually asked God.

I actually asked God, hold it, Lord, are you giving me dying grace?

I really did.

That’s a problem.

Is that what it is?

And then I had to say, if that’s what it is, let’s go, because this peace is enough.

So yes, I have experienced that peace, I have experienced that peace.

But the problem that we have is we don’t really turn it over to him.

We don’t really turn it over to him.

We hold onto it with our dear lives.

Our prayer is just one more part of our worry process.

I’m going to talk to Jesus about it, and then I’m going to do this, and then I’m going to

do this, and then I’m going to do that, and then I’m going to do this.

And we go through our process.

So let’s take it a step further.

Look at this passage from Isaiah 26, 3.

You will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is what stayed on you, because that person

whose mind is fixed on you is focused on you.

That person, that person, will be in perfect peace.

I want you to look at the way Jesus wrapped up this section of scripture in Matthew 6.

He said, “But seek first his kingdom, his righteousness, and all these things will be

added to you.”

So don’t worry about tomorrow, or tomorrow, we’ll worry about itself.

Each day has enough trouble with his own.

Let me tell you some folks, do you remember what anxiety is?

A divided mind.

It’s a divided mind.

James tells us that a man with a divided mind is unstable in all of his ways.

A divided mind will be anxious, but a mind that stayed on Jesus, what does he say right

there, seek first Jesus?

So we’ve got an order, first you go to Jesus, and I’ll try to fix it yourself like I do with

every mechanical breakdown that happens in my vehicle.

You go to Jesus, but that’s not all.

Now I’m going to give you the Bob Young extrapolated version of these two verses.

I want you to see if maybe all that talk about anxiety, being a distraction, a division

within the mind, all of that kind of stuff, comes into focus with where we need to focus

our full attention.

There it goes.

I’m going to read it, that’s okay with you.

First of all, focus your full and undivided attention on Jesus and His kingdom through

His righteousness, and all of the things that might distract you will no longer be your

concern, but God’s, and He will provide the things you need.

Now I didn’t add this in, but I’ve thought about it since then.

All of the things that you need, including peace, now stay with me.

First of all, focus your full and undivided attention.

Have a habit when I’m working on something around the house, when I’m working in the yard,

working on doing any kind of thing.

I have a habit of listening to the radio.

I listen to talk radio until Jesus reminds me, “You know, there’s other things you could

be listening to.”

I’ve got about five or six different podcasts I’m listening to that are Christian podcasts

by people that I really respect and really like and really appreciate their teaching.

If I switch to one of those, “Oh my, it changes everything that I am doing,” because my mind

is now focused on Jesus.

Not the podcaster.

Jesus is speaking through the podcaster.

Jesus is speaking through the radio if I’m listening to Christian radio.

I have a station that I listen to every time when I wake up in the morning.

I have a radio station on Amazon Music, okay?

It’s the Gettys Station.

They are these incredible musicians, Christian musicians, and they have laid out this station

that has not just their music, but a lot of other, and that’s what I listen to in the morning.

It’s heaven.

It’s heaven.

It’s my mind focused on heaven, on Jesus.

Are you understanding what I’m saying?

See, we go through life with all kinds of stuff coming in, but we need to have stuff coming

in on a regular basis that focuses our mind that creates new synapses and new pathways

in our brain that bring everything up here and away from here.

First of all, focus your full.

Second part, we’ve got to get to the second verse, yeah?

The next verse.

Here we go.

Don’t be distracted by the things that are looming large on your horizon.

You know what those things are?

You know when they come up.

They may or may not come.

But that’s not your concern because you’re not staring at them.

Your eyes are focused on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith, and he will provide

all you need today and tomorrow.

That’s what those two verses are saying in my estimation, in my view, based on what he’s

just said.

So guys, the challenge is, the challenge is to not rely on your own thinking.

Here’s a way that seems right to a man, but the end thereof is destructive, right?

No, the way to defeat the anxiety and worry is to make sure your mind is always focused

on Jesus.

And one of the ways to do that is let all of the background noise that’s coming in be

his noise.

Father, we thank you that you have given us ways of dealing with the anxiety in our lives,

that you don’t just tell us, but you teach us.

You show us what it means to have a divided mind and what it means to have a mind at peace

because it’s brought into unity by your spirit within us.

Help us father, to trust you, help us to seek you first in all things so that all things

we need, including personal peace, can be ours.

Let us walk in that truth, as we leave this place, that pray in Jesus’ name.

Amen




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The Model Prayer AKA The Lord’s Prayer AKA The Our Father AKA The Kingdom Prayer: Session Overview Podcast Episode

Pip: From The Back Porch, where the Sermon on the Mount gets a hub-and-spoke diagram and a three-times-a-day prescription — welcome back.

Mara: Today Bob takes us deep into the Lord’s Prayer — what it actually is, where it sits in the Sermon on the Mount, and why the early church treated it as a daily discipline rather than a ceremonial recitation.

Pip: Let’s start with the prayer itself and what it was always meant to be.

The Lord’s Prayer as a Daily Framework

Mara: The post opens with a placement question: where does this prayer live in the Sermon on the Mount, and why does that matter? The answer shapes everything that follows.

Pip: The post puts it plainly: “The Model Prayer is not only in the middle of the Sermon on the Mount — it is the hub of the sermon.” Every topic Jesus raises in the sermon connects back through this prayer.

Mara: So the upshot is that the prayer is not decorative — it is structural. Every life application in the sermon, the post argues, can only be realized through prayer. The prayer is the mechanism for actually living the sermon out.

Pip: Which reframes what most people think they’re doing when they recite it in a pew.

Mara: Exactly — and that tension is where the post spends real time. Jesus prefaces the prayer in Matthew 6:7 with a warning against “thoughtless repetition,” the kind of praying where volume substitutes for sincerity. The irony the post surfaces is that the prayer itself has become one of those repetitions.

Pip: The Didache gets a starring role here — a church handbook from roughly AD 80 to 120 that told members to pray the Lord’s Prayer three times a day, deliberately and reflectively.

Mara: And the post lists what that practice would accomplish each day: remembering who God is, what He wants, who meets our needs, how to relate to Him, how to relate to others, who the enemy is, who our defender is, and who receives glory in daily living.

Pip: That is a lot of theological freight for something most people get through in under thirty seconds.

Mara: The post also flags a textual detail worth knowing — the closing doxology, “For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever,” does not appear in the oldest manuscripts of Matthew. Its first known appearance is in the Didache itself, which drew on 1 Chronicles 29:11. The post isn’t arguing against using it; it’s asking listeners to know what they’re saying and why.

Pip: And the postscript the study closes on is the forgiveness clause — pray it three times a day, and you cannot avoid the condition attached to it.

Mara: The post puts that condition with no softening: if you aren’t willing to forgive someone else, the prayer you’re asking God to answer is the one you’ve already violated. That’s the real reason the early church made this a daily practice — not ritual, but accountability.

Pip: Pray it carefully, and it changes what you can honestly ask for.


Mara: The thread running through all of this is that the prayer was never meant to be background noise — it was meant to be a daily reckoning with who God is and what that asks of you.

Pip: Pray it three times a day like it means something, and by sundown you’ve already been asked to forgive someone. More to come from the back porch.

 

The Model Prayer AKA The Lord’s Prayer AKA The Our Father AKA Thee Kingdom Prayer – Complete Session Podcast Episode

Halfway through His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus seizes the teachable moment to instruct his followers about prayer and how to pray. What follows is what has become one of most recognizable passages of scripture in all of Christendom – The Lord’s Prayer. For this study we use the term “Model Prayer” since Jesus seems to offer it as a “model prayer” in Matthew 6:7-9. There He gives a warning about repetitious prayers and then says, “Pray in this manner.”

The Model Prayer is not only in the middle of the Sermon on the Mount – it is the hub of the sermon. In this prayer Jesus addresses all of the topics He brings out in the sermon itself and, in so doing, provides His followers with the framework of prayer that will enable them to live out the sermon. In one way He was saying that all of the life applications He was encouraging them to follow in His sermon could only be realized through prayer.

This prayer was so significant in the 1st Century Church that we find it in the Didache (c. AD 80-120) – a handbook developed by the early church fathers which gave instruction of how churches were to “do church.” In Chapter 8 of the Didache, church members were told to recite the Lord’s Prayer 3 times each day. Unfortunately, The Lord’s Prayer has become one of those meaningless repetitions Jesus warned us about in Matthew 6:7 which is often said in something of perfunctory way. However, if we were to adopt the practice of the 1st Century church and pray this prayer carefully, reflecting on what we are praying, then 3 times a day we would remember:

Who God is.

What He wants.

Who meets our needs.

How we are to relate to Him.

How we are to relate to others.

Who the enemy is.

Who our Defender is.

& Who should receive Glory in our daily living.

For Thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory forever and ever,

AMEN!

The Model Prayer AKA The Lord’s Prayer AKA The Our Father AKA The Kingdom Prayer

Halfway through His Sermon on the Mount, Jesus seizes the teachable moment to instruct his followers about prayer and how to pray. What follows is what has become one of most recognizable passages of scripture in all of Christendom – The Lord’s Prayer. For this study we use the term “Model Prayer” since Jesus seems to offer it as a “model prayer” in Matthew 6:7-9. There He gives a warning about repetitious prayers and then says, “Pray in this manner.”

The Model Prayer is not only in the middle of the Sermon on the Mount – it is the hub of the sermon. In this prayer Jesus addresses all of the topics He brings out in the sermon itself and, in so doing, provides His followers with the framework of prayer that will enable them to live out the sermon. In one way He was saying that all of the life applications He was encouraging them to follow in His sermon could only be realized through prayer.

This prayer was so significant in the 1st Century Church that we find it in the Didache (c. AD 80-120) – a handbook developed by the early church fathers which gave instruction of how churches were to “do church.” In Chapter 8 of the Didache, church members were told to recite the Lord’s Prayer 3 times each day. Unfortunately, The Lord’s Prayer has become one of those meaningless repetitions Jesus warned us about in Matthew 6:7 which is often said in something of perfunctory way. However, if we were to adopt the practice of the 1st Century church and pray this prayer carefully, reflecting on what we are praying, then 3 times a day we would remember:

Who God is.

What He wants.

Who meets our needs.

How we are to relate to Him.

How we are to relate to others.

Who the enemy is.

Who our Defender is.

& Who should receive Glory in our daily living.

For Thine is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory forever and ever,

AMEN!

This Bible study was presented to the Agape Life Bible Study Class of the First Baptist Church in Brenham, Texas, on Sunday, October 25, 2026. It is part of a series in a Bible study curriculum called Connect 360, published by the GC2 Press of the Baptist General Convention of Texas. The overall title of the current set of lessons, which covers Chapters 5-7 in the Book of Matthew, is Kingdom Power: The Sermon on the Mount. You can find print and digital versions of this series online at https://gc2press.org/kingdom-power-matthew-5-7-digital-study-guide/ . Handouts with class presentation content can be requested at: fromthebackporchintexas@gmail.com . Handouts are also available at: fromthebackporch.org .


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The Play’s the Thing Wherein We Honor the Glory of the King – Complete Session Podcast Episode

What must a nation do to regain God’s favor. That’s no a bad question for Americans to answer today, but it was also a good question for the Nation of Israel to be asking in the time of Jesus. In fact, the sages spent a great deal of time pondering this question as we note from the Jerusalem Talmud. There, in Ta’anit 2:1, we read, “Rabbi Eleazar said: Three things annul [or mitigate] a harsh decree, and they are: Prayer (Tefillah), Charity/Almsgiving (Tzedakah), and Repentance (Teshuvah).” Jesus addressed all three in Matthew 6:1-8 & 16-18. And He did so with a theatrical theme.

While setting the stage in Matthew 6:1, Jesus mentions being “seen” by men. The Greek word translated as “seen” has its roots in the Greek word for theatre – theatron. In his opening statement Jesus is already telling the people that you don’t want to be just an actor on a stage. He then goes on to describe the people who do so by their rightful name – hypocrite – which, in Greek, meant an actor or a stage player.

He presents the juxtaposition of the hypocrites and those who do their good deeds – charity, prayer, and fasting – secretly with no fanfare nor public display. He further points out that by receiving the praise of people, the hypocrites have their reward in full. That’s all they get. Meanwhile, those who do their good deeds in secret are paid back by God Himself.

“Be especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.” (Matthew 6:1 – MSG)

TRANSCRIPT

The Cultural Context of Greco-Roman Theater

Theater was deeply embedded in the culture of first-century Israel. Influenced heavily by Greco-Roman traditions—particularly across cities like those of the Decapolis—amphitheaters were prominent cultural fixtures throughout Judea and Galilee. When Jesus taught, his audiences were intimately familiar with theatrical concepts. In Matthew 6:1, when Jesus warns against performing acts of righteousness “to be seen by men,” He uses the Greek verb theaomai (from the root theatron), which means to look intently or gaze upon someone as if watching a performer on a stage. Furthermore, His frequent warning against being “hypocrites” directly invokes the Greek word hypokritēs, meaning an actor or stage player. In ancient Greek theater, actors wore large masks with built-in megaphones to project dramatic expressions and amplify their voices to the crowd. Jesus used this vivid cultural imagery to challenge His followers: spiritual devotion is not meant to be a staged performance for human approval.

The “Big Three” Spiritual Disciplines

In Jewish tradition, three core practices—charity (tzadakah), prayer (tefillah), and repentance (teshuva, often expressed through fasting)—were emphasized as essential for seeking God’s favor and restoring right relationship with Him. This concept is reflected throughout Scripture, such as in 2 Chronicles 7:14, where humbling oneself, praying, and turning from wicked ways brings healing and restoration. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus systematically addresses each of these three disciplines, placing them against the backdrop of a theatrical play to contrast superficial public display with genuine, heart-centered devotion.

Giving, Praying, and Fasting in Secret

Addressing the first scene—charity—Jesus cautions against “sounding a trumpet” to draw attention to one’s generosity. Hypocrites perform acts of giving in synagogues and on street corners to gain public praise, but Jesus notes that such applause is their only reward—they are “paid in full” with no heavenly value remaining. Instead, He calls for quiet, humble generosity where the “left hand does not know what the right hand is doing.” Moving to the second scene—prayer—Jesus warns against praying publicly to be seen by others. True prayer is not about public performance or demanding one’s own will; it is an intimate connection with God. By entering an inner room and closing the door, believers seek God Himself rather than human admiration. Finally, in the third scene—fasting—Jesus instructs His followers not to adopt a gloomy appearance or neglect their grooming to show off their self-denial. Because fasting is an act of heartfelt repentance, it should be done discreetly before God, who sees what is done in secret and responds with His grace and restoration.

True Motivation in Kingdom Service

Ultimately, Jesus calls His followers away from grandstanding in religious life. Theater director Konstantin Stanislavski famously noted that actors must “love art, not oneself in art.” Adapted for faith, there is no place for grandstanding in God’s kingdom; believers must love God and His kingdom, rather than loving themselves in kingdom service. Good deeds, prayer, and discipline should never be performed for self-gratification or to gain social status. When acts of devotion are carried out purely out of love for God and obedience to His commands, believers step out of the spotlight of human approval and experience the true richness of kingdom living.

The Play’s the Thing Wherein We Honor the Glory of the King – Session Overview Podcast Episode

What must a nation do to regain God’s favor. That’s no a bad question for Americans to answer today, but it was also a good question for the Nation of Israel to be asking in the time of Jesus. In fact, the sages spent a great deal of time pondering this question as we note from the Jerusalem Talmud. There, in Ta’anit 2:1, we read, “Rabbi Eleazar said: Three things annul [or mitigate] a harsh decree, and they are: Prayer (Tefillah), Charity/Almsgiving (Tzedakah), and Repentance (Teshuvah).” Jesus addressed all three in Matthew 6:1-8 & 16-18. And He did so with a theatrical theme.

While setting the stage in Matthew 6:1, Jesus mentions being “seen” by men. The Greek word translated as “seen” has its roots in the Greek word for theatre – theatron. In his opening statement Jesus is already telling the people that you don’t want to be just an actor on a stage. He then goes on to describe the people who do so by their rightful name – hypocrite – which, in Greek, meant an actor or a stage player.

He presents the juxtaposition of the hypocrites and those who do their good deeds – charity, prayer, and fasting – secretly with no fanfare nor public display. He further points out that by receiving the praise of people, the hypocrites have their reward in full. That’s all they get. Meanwhile, those who do their good deeds in secret are paid back by God Himself.

“Be especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.” (Matthew 6:1 – MSG)

Transcript:

Pip: From The Back Porch, where Bob has a way of making ancient Greek theater feel like it was written specifically to embarrass your Sunday morning Instagram post.

Mara: This episode follows one extended teaching — working through Matthew 6, the theatrical language Jesus uses, and what it means to do righteous acts without an audience. Let’s start with the play itself.

The Play’s the Thing: Righteousness Without an Audience

Pip: The question framing this whole teaching is almost uncomfortably current — what does a nation, or a person, do to get back into right standing with God? And the answer turns out to run straight through the theater district.

Mara: The setup draws from the Jerusalem Talmud, Ta’anit 2:1, before landing on Jesus in Matthew 6. And the translation chosen here makes the stakes plain: “Be especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.”

Pip: So the applause you get from the crowd is the applause you get, full stop. That’s not a metaphor — the teaching is specific that the reward is paid in full, and God’s account stays at zero.

Mara: Right, and the linguistic groundwork matters here. The Greek word translated “seen” in Matthew 6:1 roots back to theatron — theater. So when Jesus calls the showboaters hypocrites, he’s using the Greek word for stage actor, the person behind the mask. The theatrical frame isn’t decorative; it’s the whole architecture of the argument.

Pip: Which means Jesus is essentially staging a three-act play about people who are staging a three-act play. There’s a certain poetry in that.

Mara: The three scenes map directly onto the Jewish “big three” for restoring God’s favor — charity, prayer, and fasting. Each scene follows the same structure: here’s how the hypocrite does it publicly, here’s what they receive, and here’s the alternative done in secret with God as the only audience.

Pip: And the word “reward” does real work in that structure. The hypocrite’s version means paid in full — total, complete, nothing remaining. The secret-keeper’s version points toward being repaid by God, which the teaching connects to “given to you, pressed down, shaken together.”

Mara: The teaching closes by borrowing from Stanislavski — “One must love art and not oneself in art” — and modifying it: in God’s kingdom, one must love God and His kingdom and not oneself in kingdom service. It’s a pointed warning against the prosperity-gospel current running through a lot of contemporary church culture.

Pip: Grandstanding with a theological justification is still grandstanding.


Mara: The thread running through all of this is integrity between the inner life and the outer act — doing the right thing when no one creditable is watching.

Pip: Next time, we’ll see where the series goes from here. The Sermon on the Mount still has a lot of stage left.

The Play’s the Thing Wherein We Honor the Glory of the King

What must a nation do to regain God’s favor. That’s no a bad question for Americans to answer today, but it was also a good question for the Nation of Israel to be asking in the time of Jesus. In fact, the sages spent a great deal of time pondering this question as we note from the Jerusalem Talmud. There, in Ta’anit 2:1, we read, “Rabbi Eleazar said: Three things annul [or mitigate] a harsh decree, and they are: Prayer (Tefillah), Charity/Almsgiving (Tzedakah), and Repentance (Teshuvah).” Jesus addressed all three in Matthew 6:1-8 & 16-18. And He did so with a theatrical theme.

While setting the stage in Matthew 6:1, Jesus mentions being “seen” by men. The Greek word translated as “seen” has its roots in the Greek word for theatre – theatron. In his opening statement Jesus is already telling the people that you don’t want to be just an actor on a stage. He then goes on to describe the people who do so by their rightful name – hypocrite – which, in Greek, meant an actor or a stage player.

He presents the juxtaposition of the hypocrites and those who do their good deeds – charity, prayer, and fasting – secretly with no fanfare nor public display. He further points out that by receiving the praise of people, the hypocrites have their reward in full. That’s all they get. Meanwhile, those who do their good deeds in secret are paid back by God Himself.

“Be especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.” (Matthew 6:1 – MSG)

This Bible study was presented to the Agape Life Bible Study Class of the First Baptist Church in Brenham, Texas, on Sunday, October 18, 2026. It is part of a series in a Bible study curriculum called Connect 360, published by the GC2 Press of the Baptist General Convention of Texas. The overall title of the current set of lessons, which covers Chapters 5-7 in the Book of Matthew, is Kingdom Power: The Sermon on the Mount. You can find print and digital versions of this series online at https://gc2press.org/kingdom-power-matthew-5-7-digital-study-guide/ . Handouts with class presentation content can be requested at: fromthebackporchintexas@gmail.com . Handouts are also available at: fromthebackporch.org .


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An Incontrovertible Truth for a Nation of Pretty Little Liars – Compete Session Podcast Episode

In Matthew 5:33-37 Jesus continues His expansion of Jewish law by addressing the issue of vows and oaths as seen in Numbers 30 and Deuteronomy 23. He reminds His listeners that it was said to the ancients that they were not to swear falsely and to always fulfill their oaths to the Lord. Then, in keeping with His previous discourses, He proceeded to expand what was said in the Law, by saying to not make any oath at all.

In the legal discussions that became the Midrash, Mishnah, and eventually the Talmud, the issue shifted from the vow itself to the manner in which it was presented and the guarantees of fulfillment offered up by the person making the vow. Swearing by heaven (instead of G_D) or swearing by earth (instead of G_D) or even swearing by your own life (instead of G_D) became accepted practices, or loopholes if you will, in making the oath more binding without actually naming the name of G_D. Jesus pointed out the foolishness in their efforts and told them to simply let your “yes” be “yes” and your “no” be “no.” Anything more was unnecessary, and actually evil, because hedging your bets with some form of oath sullied the purity of truth demanded by the One Who is truth Himself.

We do the same thing today when we say things like, “I swear on a stack of Bibles” or “I swear on my Mother’s grave” or “As God is my witness” or “Cross my heart and hope to die.” We often say these things in jest, but that attitude in itself is more of an affront to God. At least the 1st Century Jews were trying to honor G_D in their statements. We just are flippant in our cute little oaths – nothing more than pretty little liars.

The solution? If you can’t speak the truth in love, don’t speak. In other words, if you can’t speak the truth – keep your mouth shut. “If you abstain from vowing, it shall not be sin to you.” (Deuteronomy 23:22 – NKJ)

You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free if you abide in My word, because then you are truly My disciples. (John 8:31b-32)

Transcript

Boys and girls, today not an inconvenient truth, an incontrovertible truth. Okay, do you know what incontrovertible means? It’s absolutely true. But not only that, it is undeniably you cannot refute it. You cannot dispute it. You cannot prove it false. What’s going on here?

Being sworn in as president. Lyndon Baines Johnson being sworn in as president. Where is he?

He’s on Air Force One in Dallas, Texas. Okay. Um, do you know who any of the other people are that are around him?

Jackie Onasses Kennedy or Jackie Kennedy Onasis. Oops. Jackie Kennedy is to his left. Ladybird Johnson is to his right looking over his shoulder wondering why Jackie’s up there so close. Did I say that out? I didn’t mean to say that out loud, but it was the first thought that popped into my mind when I looked at this picture here. Anybody else? You know any of these other people? Okay. You don’t know who the uh the judge is?

No, it’s not. It was a district judge. It wasn’t a a Supreme Court justice. Okay. It was a a district court judge, I think. Uh Sarah Hughes. Sarah Hughes was her name. Okay. How about the lurch back there on the left? No. No. Wonderful guess. Good guess, but incorrect. Okay. You probably won’t remember him. I had to actually look it up and make sure that I I knew I knew who he was in the sense of what he did, but I couldn’t remember his name. Uh that’s Thomas, Albert Thomas, US representative here in Texas. I mean he was a from Texas representative from Texas and the guy over there the other one is another representative. Um the reason Thomas I knew who or I knew the connection there. It’s a little piece of history. We have the space center in Houston because of him. Okay. And no doubt the connection that he had uh he he made that happen. I thought that was kind of cool. Interesting. So uh he’s he’s taking the oath, the oath of office, right?

Does he close the oath of office with so help me God?

Do what? You think so? Is that phrase in the Constitution as part of the oath that the president must swear to? No. No, it is not. says, “I do solemnly swear or affirm that I will faithfully execute the office president of the United States and will do the best of my ability to preserve, protect, and defend the Constitution of the United States.” Full stop. However,

presidents for decades have always said at the end, “So help me God.” They’ve been asked to say it. I mean the whoever was administering the oath has said it. Hughes the lady who is giving the oath, she was of course handed a piece of paper, right? She was handed a piece of paper said here’s what you’re supposed to get him to say. Here’s the oath. And so she got to the end and she had the oath as it is in the Constitution. But she got to the end the Constitution of the United States. Constitution of the United States. So help me God. So help me God. He said it. She volunteered it. She just thought given the circumstances it was appropriate. Okay. So what’s his left hand on? Okay. So did he say Yes, he Yes, he said it. Yes, he said it. Every president I want to say hang on. No. Did I write that down? I don’t think I did. And it’s every I know every president since Truman has said so help me God. But the the process of saying so help me God started back in the 1800s. But I don’t know that all of them said it. I just know okay. Uh is his hand on a Bible.

Looks like it. Yeah. That’s what the aids thought too.

They were scrambling around looking for a Bible, right? What they found was a book that belonged to JFK that was filled with prayers. Okay. A missive. Okay. It had a cross on the front. His aid said good enough. Snatched it up. So he put his hand on on the missive, if you will, and uh took the oath of office. The oath was made. The oath was made. Right? We’re talking today about oaths. We’re talking about swearing oaths.

We’re in Matthew 5:33-37.

There Jesus begins with commands concerning vows from both numbers 30 chap 30 chapter of Numbers and Deuteronomy 23. He then moves in into a discussion of what I’m calling loopholes and then solemn oaths and impregatory oaths.

I’m going to go out on a limb and say that some of you don’t know what impregatory is. Okay, I used one in the next statement.

Cross my heart and hope to

to what? To die. An impregatory oath is swearing on your death. Okay, it’s saying, “May I die if I’m lying?” Okay, and then he concludes with the kiss principle. Yes or no? Keep it simple, stupid. Don’t need to embellish that, right? So, let’s take us let’s take a look at it in a little bit more depth. Making a vow to God. Jesus starts off. This is verse 33. Again, you have heard it said to those of old, “You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your vows to the Lord.” Specifically, this is what he was referring to. Numbers 30 and Deuteronomy 23. Okay, the wording is is a, you know, you kind of put them together to to come up with what Jesus was saying, but that’s part of the reason it’s it goes back to that midrash thing. They’re discussing this and they’re saying, “What does it really mean to make a vow, okay? They’re trying to nail it down because they want to make every they want to make sure that they’re doing everything according to the law. According to the law, want to, you know, dot every eye, cross every tea. I want to take care. I want to make sure I’m doing.” So, they go back and they start reviewing this stuff. Jesus says, “You’ve heard it said, you shall not swear falsely, but you shall perform your oaths.” And basically, that’s what that’s what we find here, right? Can you see that in in those statements? Yeah. Okay. A man makes a vow to the Lord, swears an oath to bind himself by some agreement, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth. When you make a vow to the Lord your God, you shall not delay to pay it. For the Lord your God will surely require it of you, and it would be sin to you if you didn’t fulfill it. If you didn’t pay the, you know, or do whatever it is that you said you’re going to do. Okay. But what does Jesus do with all of these basic statements? He says, “This is what was said.” And then what does he say next? But I say to you, But I say to you, But I say to you, But I say to you, do not swear at all, neither by heaven, for it is God’s throne, nor by the earth, for it is his foottool, by nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great king. You shall not, nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. Now you’re thinking, what? Yeah, those were some of the loopholes they were coming up with. You want to swear by God, that’s a big deal. If you’re going to go if you’re going to go to that link, that’s a big deal. And they said, “We need we need to kind of uh soften this a little bit.” So, they came up with some uh look at Isaiah 66, verse one. Look at Isaiah 66.

you there? Yeah. Isaiah 66 verse one. Heaven is my throne and the earth is the foottool of my feet. So you can swear by heaven. Why? That’s where God is. But it’s not as serious as swearing by God.

You can even swear by his foottool. I mean, guys, I know you think it’s it sounds crazy, but some of these rabbis were sitting around coming up with this stuff, saying you can swear by his foottool. That’s even a little bit lower down on the totem pole. You know, that’s not even swearing by the throne, which by the way, you could also do.

They had all of these loopholes built in. built in uh Psalm 48:2. Psalm 48:2,

it’s swear by Mount Zion, the city of the great king, Jerusalem. You see that they had all of these things built in and then they decided to put in you could swear on your life. That’s what the last one means. You could swear by your own life. Only he used the word head. When he in the scripture says head, that’s a loophole. Because if you’re swearing by your head, you lose your head.

You’re dead, right?

Loopholes. Very common common practice in the Middle East to swear by all of these different all of these different things. kind of makes sense that he would say all of that, doesn’t it? In light of the fact that those are the discussions that are taking place and and he’s saying you’re you’re pondering that stuff. You is wasting pers. If that’s what you’re pondering, that’s just a waste of ponders right there. So, do we ever do this?

You ever hear any of these? A stack of Bibles because one isn’t good enough.

I mean, yeah. No, no, no, no, no, no. You can swear on a Bible. You give me I swear on a Bible. No, no, no. Give me a stack of Bibles. I don’t swear on a stack of Bibles, guys. I don’t know whether y’all have heard any of these. I have literally heard all of these.

If I’m dying, if I’m lying, I’m dying. Actually, I’ve said that one.

And we do it kind of with a wink and a nod and a nudge nudge. You know what I’m saying? We, you know, it’s not like we’re saying we’re not late, but some people are really serious about it.

It’s common, isn’t it? It’s common. Those things those things are so common. It makes me kind of shudder because we take God so lightly.

Do you understand? Swear on a stack of Bibles. I’m with you, John. You know,

swear on my mother’s grave. I swear by all that’s holy.

I mean, come on. Come on, guys. But we do it. We do it. And we shouldn’t. And Jesus Jesus says, “Nope. You know what you need to say is let your yes be yes.” and you know be known for whatever you do above and beyond that that’s just from the evil one. You say that’s a little harsh, isn’t it? From the evil one. No, it’s true. And it has to do with truth. It has to do with integrity. It has to do with the purity that is the very nature of God.

Absolute truth.

You’ve you’ve heard these phrases before, I’m sure, too. You might not have heard this one. Actually, I just found this one. But I thought it was so good I just had to share it with you. But you’ve heard your word as your bond. Isn’t it you? Don’t you you know man is only as good as his word, right? I’ve told this story, but it’s been a while. So those of you that have heard it, go ahead and take a nap. Um, back when we were living down on Lake Houston, we had to have one pier on our pier and beam house fixed. Okay. So, I was calling up foundation people and getting bids and all this kind of stuff, you know, get that thing jacked up and leveled and all that kind of stuff and all of this. And I had had a couple of companies come out and they had given me their written bids with all of the details with all of the stuff, you know, and all that kind of stuff. Woo. And then I had one more house moving company that was going to come out and and give me a bid. Okay. And so I’m waiting for them, sitting out on the front porch, waiting for them to show up. Here they came in an old raggedy flatbed truck.

They’re getting out. They all have beards down to here, long hair, overalls, and all of them barefoot.

I call them the mountain men because they were mountain men. You understand? They got out and at first I’m sitting there waiting and I’m thought, “Oh man, I hope these guys don’t take long. I’ve got to hit and see my the people they’re coming to bid on.” It was them. They were coming to to make me a bid, right? And uh so they uh they got busy and all three of them crawled up under the house. All three of them crawled up into the house, looked around, came out, and about it was it was less than 10 minutes, I know that they were there. And they said, “So, what we’re going to do, we’re going to take we’re going to jack this up right here. We’re going to put this down here in the ground. We’re going to set this footing down here. And then we’re going to put that post in there. We’re going to solid it up. And then we’re going to pump underneath it. We’re going to pump some stuff, some concrete and stuff like that. We’re going to get it all set. It’s going to be all nice and level.” And he gave me a price.

It was a fourth of the lowest bid I had received.

And I said, “You know what?” I was impressed. I mean, they knew what they were talking about, right? I said, “You know what? I think we got us a deal.” I stuck my hand out and shook that man’s hand and he said, “We’ll be here on Monday.” And I said, ‘W wait, don’t you have some kind of contract or something like that we need to sign here? And he said, ‘We just shook on it, didn’t we? I said, yes, sir, we did. And he said, see you Monday.

But isn’t that a nice phrase right there? To keep your word is to weave a thread of gold into the fabric of your reputation. That’s what we’re That’s what That’s what we want, right? We want that reputation. But unfortunately, we’re a nation of pretty little liars. I had to ask Pam what that show is about. I’ve heard that the name of that show and apparently it’s about some mean girls in school. Yeah. Really pretty little liars. But the fact is we as a nation uh we are pretty little liars in general. Well, how often do you tell lies, including the small ones? Where do you fit in there? Look at that.

Several times a day. Well,

I love it. They get down to a certain point and it’s almost like they gave them an out. They give them several times, once a day, few times a week, few times a month. Less often than that. Yeah, less often than that. Gave him an out. Compared with most other people, do you think you tell lies more often or less often? Now you’re thinking about other people. You think you tell lies more often than other people or less often? Oh, you think you tell lies less often than most people? Right? You realize that all the rest of those people are putting you in that same category because they say I tell lies less than

right. I just thought that was kind of interesting. In other words, look, we look at ourselves, we say, “Nah, not me. Not me. Not me.” How about this one? Compared with most other people, do you think you are better or worse at telling lies? Oo, why are we obsessed with comparison? If you claim, this was a good safe answer there, but if you claim I’m better at it. I can I can beat them off. I’m better than most people. Yeah. When I tell a lie, it works, right? Okay. Telling someone the truth might hurt their feelings. Which would you be more likely to do? Ooh. You’re going to tell them the truth, but it’s going to hurt their feelings. Tell them the truth. about half the people and then they’re split here on what they’re going to do. But here’s the other one. Here’s the other one. If being told the truth might hurt your feelings, which would you prefer someone to do? Probably already know what the truth is. You probably already know. 82%. And yet that previous one we’re saying, I don’t know. I don’t know. When most people say, “Yeah, I’d really rather know.” Last one. In general, do you think telling small lies to try to spare someone’s feelings makes the relationship better or worse? It all depends. Really, here’s the thing. You tell that little lie thinking it’s going to make things better. They find out about it. All of a sudden, it’s a whole lot worse. It’s a whole lot worse. The thing is, folks, we are a nation of liars. We don’t believe politicians at all. I’m serious. I I I don’t When I hear a politician say something, I’m thinking, how did he just word that so that he could say that? Do you understand what I’m saying? How did he how did he phrase that so that he could get away with saying that? Jesus says just say yes or or no. Just say yes or no. Okay? No need to lie. And if you if you don’t take it from Jesus, take it from Proverbs. This all comes out of the same chapter. As a matter of fact, there’s one verse in the middle of it that I pulled out because it didn’t specifically mention liars. But the one that pulled that I pulled out was no harm comes to the godly, but the wicked have their fill of trouble. Well, if you lie, you’re going to have your fill of trouble. But here, he who speaks truth declares righteousness, but a false witness deceit. There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, but the tongue of the wise promotes help. The truthful lip shall be established forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment. Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but counselors of peace have joy. Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who deal truthfully are his delight.

Truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. By the way, is that is that phrase still used in courts of law? It is. Okay. Are you required to swear on a Bible in a court of law? Not anymore. Not anymore. Okay. But you are required to tell the truth.

Right? So when Jesus says this, he highlights the deceitfulness of swearing an oath or making a vow and the foolishness of such efforts. That’s why it’s called that’s that’s why it says right here uh for whatever is more than these is from the evil one. Come on guys, that’s evil. You don’t need to do that. You don’t need to do that. In Deuteronomy 23, you remember we looked at Deuteronomy 23 earlier. That’s one of the places where Jesus was quoting. He didn’t quote this verse, but Deuteronomy 23:22 is the very next verse. And it says, “But if you abstain from vowing, it shall not be a sin to you.” In other words, Jesus in the in the law in the Deuteronomy law, the law itself says don’t vow or if you do, make sure you vow and and follow through. The next verse says, “But if you abstain from vowing, it won’t be sin.” Well, hello. Jesus is saying something very similar, isn’t he? He’s saying, “You want to avoid sin, don’t make the vow, don’t swear.” Okay, going to wrap it up real quick here.

In other words, can’t speak the truth, just keep your mouth shut. Again, Proverbs echoes this over and over and over again. He who guards his mouth preserves life, but he who opens his lips shall have destruction. Whoever guards his mouth and keeps his tongue from keeps his soul from trouble. Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace. When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive. It’s kind of that take on Abraham Lincoln’s thing. Better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you’re a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, right? I mean, this is biblical, people. Keep your mouth shut. You don’t need to go on and on and on and on and on and say, “But I got to prove I got to prove to you that I’m right. I got to prove to you that I’m right.” No, you don’t. You don’t got to prove nothing.

Many people could not handle the truth that Jesus told. Uh, look at John 8. Go ahead and look at John 8. I’d like for you to have it open. I’m going to give you some of the verses up here, but I’d like for you to just have the whole thing open. In John 8,

Jesus is talking with a group of people who take exception to some of the things that he says. Okay.

The first one I want to point out is this. He says, “You will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” Do you see that? It’s in verses 31 and 32. 31B and 32. However, is mine different than yours? I flipped the order. Yes, I flipped the order. Why did I do that? Because we love to say the truth will set you free, but we never say what comes before that. Another way of saying what Jesus said in those two verses is you will know the truth. The truth will make you free if you abide in my word because then you are truly my disciples. See, that’s not what it says. Is it you will know the truth and the truth will make you free is what we hear all the time. I mean you say that all the time. You’ll know the truth and the truth. I said it to my kids. You will know the truth and the truth will make you free. But the thing is we are ignoring the fact that the truth Jesus is talking about is himself.

The truth that Jesus is referencing is the truth, the way, the life. Right. It’s not just, yeah, you’re going to know the truth about, you know, whether or not the Cowboys or the the Texans are going to win today. You’re going to know the truth about that. No, that that don’t mean nothing, man. That don’t mean nothing. Well, the Texans are going to win, but still that don’t mean nothing. You understand? No. What means something is Jesus is the truth. And if you know him, if you are his disciple, ooh, then you’re set free because he sets you free. That’s the whole thing about what he was saying here. If you if you drop down to verses 37 and 38, what he said was then you’re going to be free. And they came back and they said, “Well, we’re free. We’re Abraham’s kids and we ain’t never been enslaved.” Which was a lie to begin with. I mean, they were enslaved in Egypt. I mean, do they not even know what happened back then? You know, but they say, “We have never been enslaved.” He said, “No, no, no, no, no. I know that you’re Abraham’s seed. Yet, you are seeking to kill me because my word has no place in you. I speak the things which I have seen with my father. Therefore, you also do the things that you have heard from your father, like trying to kill me for speaking the truth. Wow. Wow.

And then he says, you belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language.

That’s his native tongue right there. For he is a liar and the father of lies. Yet because I tell you the truth, you don’t believe me.

Guys, the fact is when Jack Nicholson said truth, you can’t handle the truth. Now, there’s a lot of this world that can’t handle the truth. There’s a lot of this world that can’t handle the truth. But the fact But the fact is that if we know Jesus, we not only can handle the truth, we know the truth. Ain’t that right? Ain’t that right? Take that, Jack.

You can’t handle the truth. Father, we thank you that you have given us your truth that supersedes all of the the silly notions that we we proclaim as truth. Father, thank you that in your wisdom we can know the truth, even your son, Jesus Christ. And we can know the truth of your gospel. We can know the truth of your salvation. We can know the truth of your love. And Father, help us to rightly handle that truth. So many don’t know it. So much of the world does not know the truth. So many of our friends, co-workers, neighbors, relatives, so many people do not know the truth. Help us, Father, to proclaim the truth that is Jesus Christ. I pray in Jesus name. Amen.

An Incontrovertible Truth for a Nation of Pretty Little Liars – Session Overview Podcast Episode

In Matthew 5:33-37 Jesus continues His expansion of Jewish law by addressing the issue of vows and oaths as seen in Numbers 30 and Deuteronomy 23. He reminds His listeners that it was said to the ancients that they were not to swear falsely and to always fulfill their oaths to the Lord. Then, in keeping with His previous discourses, He proceeded to expand what was said in the Law, by saying to not make any oath at all.

In the legal discussions that became the Midrash, Mishnah, and eventually the Talmud, the issue shifted from the vow itself to the manner in which it was presented and the guarantees of fulfillment offered up by the person making the vow. Swearing by heaven (instead of G_D) or swearing by earth (instead of G_D) or even swearing by your own life (instead of G_D) became accepted practices, or loopholes if you will, in making the oath more binding without actually naming the name of G_D. Jesus pointed out the foolishness in their efforts and told them to simply let your “yes” be “yes” and your “no” be “no.” Anything more was unnecessary, and actually evil, because hedging your bets with some form of oath sullied the purity of truth demanded by the One Who is truth Himself.

We do the same thing today when we say things like, “I swear on a stack of Bibles” or “I swear on my Mother’s grave” or “As God is my witness” or “Cross my heart and hope to die.” We often say these things in jest, but that attitude in itself is more of an affront to God. At least the 1st Century Jews were trying to honor G_D in their statements. We just are flippant in our cute little oaths – nothing more than pretty little liars.

The solution? If you can’t speak the truth in love, don’t speak. In other words, if you can’t speak the truth – keep your mouth shut. “If you abstain from vowing, it shall not be sin to you.” (Deuteronomy 23:22 – NKJ)

You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free if you abide in My word, because then you are truly My disciples. (John 8:31b-32)

Transcript

Pip: From The Back Porch, where the porch light is on and the truth is apparently non-negotiable — which, as Bob points out, is a higher standard than most of us are meeting.

Mara: This episode follows a Bible study on oaths, vows, and why Jesus told his listeners to drop the elaborate swearing rituals and just say what they mean.

Pip: Simple instruction. Apparently not simple enough.

Mara: Let’s start with what Matthew 5 actually says about all of it.

When Yes Means Yes and No Means No

Pip: The setup here is Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount, picking up where Jewish law left on vows — and then pushing past it entirely. The question the post is really asking is why we keep reaching for bigger, louder oaths when a plain yes or no should be enough.

Mara: The post frames it this way: “Swearing by heaven or swearing by earth or even swearing by your own life became accepted practices, or loopholes if you will, in making the oath more binding without actually naming the name of G_D. Jesus pointed out the foolishness in their efforts and told them to simply let your yes be yes and your no be no.”

Pip: So the rabbinical tradition had essentially built an elaborate escape hatch system — swear by the throne, not the one sitting on it — and Jesus called the whole architecture unnecessary.

Mara: Right. And the post connects that ancient workaround directly to modern habit. “I swear on a stack of Bibles,” “cross my heart and hope to die,” “as God is my witness” — the post names these as the same impulse dressed in contemporary clothing.

Pip: We’ve upgraded the loopholes, kept the dishonesty.

Mara: The post cites survey data on this. Most people rate themselves as lying less often than other people — which is a statistical impossibility, and the post notes the irony plainly.

Pip: Everyone is below average at lying, apparently.

Mara: The post also makes a careful distinction about a verse that often gets quoted in isolation. The full passage from John 8:31b-32 reads: “You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free if you abide in my word, because then you are truly my disciples.”

Pip: The point being that “the truth will set you free” is everywhere — bumper stickers, courtrooms, graduation speeches — but the conditional clause usually gets left in the parking lot.

Mara: Exactly. The post argues the truth Jesus is referencing is not factual accuracy in general but Jesus himself — and that stripping the verse of its subject changes its meaning entirely.

Pip: And the practical conclusion is almost blunt in its simplicity: if you cannot speak the truth, the post says, keep your mouth shut. Deuteronomy 23:22 is cited directly — “If you abstain from vowing, it shall not be sin to you.”

Mara: Which the post frames as the law itself offering the cleaner path. Don’t make the vow at all rather than make one you’ll hedge or break.

Pip: Less oath-taking, more actual truth-telling. The Sermon on the Mount as a call for plain speech in a culture that has made an art form of the technically-not-a-lie.


Mara: The thread running through all of this is integrity — not as an abstract virtue but as the daily practice of meaning what you say.

Pip: Say yes, say no, stop swearing on things. Turns out the incontrovertible truth is pretty short.

An Incontrovertible Truth for a Nation of Pretty Little Liars

In Matthew 5:33-37 Jesus continues His expansion of Jewish law by addressing the issue of vows and oaths as seen in Numbers 30 and Deuteronomy 23. He reminds His listeners that it was said to the ancients that they were not to swear falsely and to always fulfill their oaths to the Lord. Then, in keeping with His previous discourses, He proceeded to expand what was said in the Law, by saying to not make any oath at all.

In the legal discussions that became the Midrash, Mishnah, and eventually the Talmud, the issue shifted from the vow itself to the manner in which it was presented and the guarantees of fulfillment offered up by the person making the vow. Swearing by heaven (instead of G_D) or swearing by earth (instead of G_D) or even swearing by your own life (instead of G_D) became accepted practices, or loopholes if you will, in making the oath more binding without actually naming the name of G_D. Jesus pointed out the foolishness in their efforts and told them to simply let your “yes” be “yes” and your “no” be “no.” Anything more was unnecessary, and actually evil, because hedging your bets with some form of oath sullied the purity of truth demanded by the One Who is truth Himself.

We do the same thing today when we say things like, “I swear on a stack of Bibles” or “I swear on my Mother’s grave” or “As God is my witness” or “Cross my heart and hope to die.” We often say these things in jest, but that attitude in itself is more of an affront to God. At least the 1st Century Jews were trying to honor G_D in their statements. We just are flippant in our cute little oaths – nothing more than pretty little liars.

The solution? If you can’t speak the truth in love, don’t speak. In other words, if you can’t speak the truth – keep your mouth shut. “If you abstain from vowing, it shall not be sin to you.” (Deuteronomy 23:22 – NKJ)

You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free if you abide in My word, because then you are truly My disciples. (John 8:31b-32)

Transcript

Boys and girls, today not an inconvenient truth, an incontrovertible truth. Okay, do you know what incontrovertible means? It’s absolutely true. But not only that, it is undeniably you cannot refute it. You cannot dispute it. You cannot prove it false. What’s going on here?

Being sworn in as president. Lyndon Baines Johnson being sworn in as president. Where is he?

He’s on Air Force One in Dallas, Texas. Okay. Um, do you know who any of the other people are that are around him?

Jackie Onasses Kennedy or Jackie Kennedy Onasis. Oops. Jackie Kennedy is to his left. Ladybird Johnson is to his right looking over his shoulder wondering why Jackie’s up there so close. Did I say that out? I didn’t mean to say that out loud, but it was the first thought that popped into my mind when I looked at this picture here. Anybody else? You know any of these other people? Okay. You don’t know who the uh the judge is?

No, it’s not. It was a district judge. It wasn’t a a Supreme Court justice. Okay. It was a a district court judge, I think. Uh Sarah Hughes. Sarah Hughes was her name. Okay. How about the lurch back there on the left? No. No. Wonderful guess. Good guess, but incorrect. Okay. You probably won’t remember him. I had to actually look it up and make sure that I I knew I knew who he was in the sense of what he did, but I couldn’t remember his name. Uh that’s Thomas, Albert Thomas, US representative here in Texas. I mean he was a from Texas representative from Texas and the guy over there the other one is another representative. Um the reason Thomas I knew who or I knew the connection there. It’s a little piece of history. We have the space center in Houston because of him. Okay. And no doubt the connection that he had uh he he made that happen. I thought that was kind of cool. Interesting. So uh he’s he’s taking the oath, the oath of office, right?

Does he close the oath of office with so help me God?

Do what? You think so? Is that phrase in the Constitution as part of the oath that the president must swear to? No. No, it is not. says, “I do solemnly swear or affirm that I will faithfully execute the office president of the United States and will do the best of my ability to preserve, protect, and defend the Constitution of the United States.” Full stop. However,

presidents for decades have always said at the end, “So help me God.” They’ve been asked to say it. I mean the whoever was administering the oath has said it. Hughes the lady who is giving the oath, she was of course handed a piece of paper, right? She was handed a piece of paper said here’s what you’re supposed to get him to say. Here’s the oath. And so she got to the end and she had the oath as it is in the Constitution. But she got to the end the Constitution of the United States. Constitution of the United States. So help me God. So help me God. He said it. She volunteered it. She just thought given the circumstances it was appropriate. Okay. So what’s his left hand on? Okay. So did he say Yes, he Yes, he said it. Yes, he said it. Every president I want to say hang on. No. Did I write that down? I don’t think I did. And it’s every I know every president since Truman has said so help me God. But the the process of saying so help me God started back in the 1800s. But I don’t know that all of them said it. I just know okay. Uh is his hand on a Bible.

Looks like it. Yeah. That’s what the aids thought too.

They were scrambling around looking for a Bible, right? What they found was a book that belonged to JFK that was filled with prayers. Okay. A missive. Okay. It had a cross on the front. His aid said good enough. Snatched it up. So he put his hand on on the missive, if you will, and uh took the oath of office. The oath was made. The oath was made. Right? We’re talking today about oaths. We’re talking about swearing oaths.

We’re in Matthew 5:33-37.

There Jesus begins with commands concerning vows from both numbers 30 chap 30 chapter of Numbers and Deuteronomy 23. He then moves in into a discussion of what I’m calling loopholes and then solemn oaths and impregatory oaths.

I’m going to go out on a limb and say that some of you don’t know what impregatory is. Okay, I used one in the next statement.

Cross my heart and hope to

to what? To die. An impregatory oath is swearing on your death. Okay, it’s saying, “May I die if I’m lying?” Okay, and then he concludes with the kiss principle. Yes or no? Keep it simple, stupid. Don’t need to embellish that, right? So, let’s take us let’s take a look at it in a little bit more depth. Making a vow to God. Jesus starts off. This is verse 33. Again, you have heard it said to those of old, “You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your vows to the Lord.” Specifically, this is what he was referring to. Numbers 30 and Deuteronomy 23. Okay, the wording is is a, you know, you kind of put them together to to come up with what Jesus was saying, but that’s part of the reason it’s it goes back to that midrash thing. They’re discussing this and they’re saying, “What does it really mean to make a vow, okay? They’re trying to nail it down because they want to make every they want to make sure that they’re doing everything according to the law. According to the law, want to, you know, dot every eye, cross every tea. I want to take care. I want to make sure I’m doing.” So, they go back and they start reviewing this stuff. Jesus says, “You’ve heard it said, you shall not swear falsely, but you shall perform your oaths.” And basically, that’s what that’s what we find here, right? Can you see that in in those statements? Yeah. Okay. A man makes a vow to the Lord, swears an oath to bind himself by some agreement, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth. When you make a vow to the Lord your God, you shall not delay to pay it. For the Lord your God will surely require it of you, and it would be sin to you if you didn’t fulfill it. If you didn’t pay the, you know, or do whatever it is that you said you’re going to do. Okay. But what does Jesus do with all of these basic statements? He says, “This is what was said.” And then what does he say next? But I say to you, But I say to you, But I say to you, But I say to you, do not swear at all, neither by heaven, for it is God’s throne, nor by the earth, for it is his foottool, by nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great king. You shall not, nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. Now you’re thinking, what? Yeah, those were some of the loopholes they were coming up with. You want to swear by God, that’s a big deal. If you’re going to go if you’re going to go to that link, that’s a big deal. And they said, “We need we need to kind of uh soften this a little bit.” So, they came up with some uh look at Isaiah 66, verse one. Look at Isaiah 66.

you there? Yeah. Isaiah 66 verse one. Heaven is my throne and the earth is the foottool of my feet. So you can swear by heaven. Why? That’s where God is. But it’s not as serious as swearing by God.

You can even swear by his foottool. I mean, guys, I know you think it’s it sounds crazy, but some of these rabbis were sitting around coming up with this stuff, saying you can swear by his foottool. That’s even a little bit lower down on the totem pole. You know, that’s not even swearing by the throne, which by the way, you could also do.

They had all of these loopholes built in. built in uh Psalm 48:2. Psalm 48:2,

it’s swear by Mount Zion, the city of the great king, Jerusalem. You see that they had all of these things built in and then they decided to put in you could swear on your life. That’s what the last one means. You could swear by your own life. Only he used the word head. When he in the scripture says head, that’s a loophole. Because if you’re swearing by your head, you lose your head.

You’re dead, right?

Loopholes. Very common common practice in the Middle East to swear by all of these different all of these different things. kind of makes sense that he would say all of that, doesn’t it? In light of the fact that those are the discussions that are taking place and and he’s saying you’re you’re pondering that stuff. You is wasting pers. If that’s what you’re pondering, that’s just a waste of ponders right there. So, do we ever do this?

You ever hear any of these? A stack of Bibles because one isn’t good enough.

I mean, yeah. No, no, no, no, no, no. You can swear on a Bible. You give me I swear on a Bible. No, no, no. Give me a stack of Bibles. I don’t swear on a stack of Bibles, guys. I don’t know whether y’all have heard any of these. I have literally heard all of these.

If I’m dying, if I’m lying, I’m dying. Actually, I’ve said that one.

And we do it kind of with a wink and a nod and a nudge nudge. You know what I’m saying? We, you know, it’s not like we’re saying we’re not late, but some people are really serious about it.

It’s common, isn’t it? It’s common. Those things those things are so common. It makes me kind of shudder because we take God so lightly.

Do you understand? Swear on a stack of Bibles. I’m with you, John. You know,

swear on my mother’s grave. I swear by all that’s holy.

I mean, come on. Come on, guys. But we do it. We do it. And we shouldn’t. And Jesus Jesus says, “Nope. You know what you need to say is let your yes be yes.” and you know be known for whatever you do above and beyond that that’s just from the evil one. You say that’s a little harsh, isn’t it? From the evil one. No, it’s true. And it has to do with truth. It has to do with integrity. It has to do with the purity that is the very nature of God.

Absolute truth.

You’ve you’ve heard these phrases before, I’m sure, too. You might not have heard this one. Actually, I just found this one. But I thought it was so good I just had to share it with you. But you’ve heard your word as your bond. Isn’t it you? Don’t you you know man is only as good as his word, right? I’ve told this story, but it’s been a while. So those of you that have heard it, go ahead and take a nap. Um, back when we were living down on Lake Houston, we had to have one pier on our pier and beam house fixed. Okay. So, I was calling up foundation people and getting bids and all this kind of stuff, you know, get that thing jacked up and leveled and all that kind of stuff and all of this. And I had had a couple of companies come out and they had given me their written bids with all of the details with all of the stuff, you know, and all that kind of stuff. Woo. And then I had one more house moving company that was going to come out and and give me a bid. Okay. And so I’m waiting for them, sitting out on the front porch, waiting for them to show up. Here they came in an old raggedy flatbed truck.

They’re getting out. They all have beards down to here, long hair, overalls, and all of them barefoot.

I call them the mountain men because they were mountain men. You understand? They got out and at first I’m sitting there waiting and I’m thought, “Oh man, I hope these guys don’t take long. I’ve got to hit and see my the people they’re coming to bid on.” It was them. They were coming to to make me a bid, right? And uh so they uh they got busy and all three of them crawled up under the house. All three of them crawled up into the house, looked around, came out, and about it was it was less than 10 minutes, I know that they were there. And they said, “So, what we’re going to do, we’re going to take we’re going to jack this up right here. We’re going to put this down here in the ground. We’re going to set this footing down here. And then we’re going to put that post in there. We’re going to solid it up. And then we’re going to pump underneath it. We’re going to pump some stuff, some concrete and stuff like that. We’re going to get it all set. It’s going to be all nice and level.” And he gave me a price.

It was a fourth of the lowest bid I had received.

And I said, “You know what?” I was impressed. I mean, they knew what they were talking about, right? I said, “You know what? I think we got us a deal.” I stuck my hand out and shook that man’s hand and he said, “We’ll be here on Monday.” And I said, ‘W wait, don’t you have some kind of contract or something like that we need to sign here? And he said, ‘We just shook on it, didn’t we? I said, yes, sir, we did. And he said, see you Monday.

But isn’t that a nice phrase right there? To keep your word is to weave a thread of gold into the fabric of your reputation. That’s what we’re That’s what That’s what we want, right? We want that reputation. But unfortunately, we’re a nation of pretty little liars. I had to ask Pam what that show is about. I’ve heard that the name of that show and apparently it’s about some mean girls in school. Yeah. Really pretty little liars. But the fact is we as a nation uh we are pretty little liars in general. Well, how often do you tell lies, including the small ones? Where do you fit in there? Look at that.

Several times a day. Well,

I love it. They get down to a certain point and it’s almost like they gave them an out. They give them several times, once a day, few times a week, few times a month. Less often than that. Yeah, less often than that. Gave him an out. Compared with most other people, do you think you tell lies more often or less often? Now you’re thinking about other people. You think you tell lies more often than other people or less often? Oh, you think you tell lies less often than most people? Right? You realize that all the rest of those people are putting you in that same category because they say I tell lies less than

right. I just thought that was kind of interesting. In other words, look, we look at ourselves, we say, “Nah, not me. Not me. Not me.” How about this one? Compared with most other people, do you think you are better or worse at telling lies? Oo, why are we obsessed with comparison? If you claim, this was a good safe answer there, but if you claim I’m better at it. I can I can beat them off. I’m better than most people. Yeah. When I tell a lie, it works, right? Okay. Telling someone the truth might hurt their feelings. Which would you be more likely to do? Ooh. You’re going to tell them the truth, but it’s going to hurt their feelings. Tell them the truth. about half the people and then they’re split here on what they’re going to do. But here’s the other one. Here’s the other one. If being told the truth might hurt your feelings, which would you prefer someone to do? Probably already know what the truth is. You probably already know. 82%. And yet that previous one we’re saying, I don’t know. I don’t know. When most people say, “Yeah, I’d really rather know.” Last one. In general, do you think telling small lies to try to spare someone’s feelings makes the relationship better or worse? It all depends. Really, here’s the thing. You tell that little lie thinking it’s going to make things better. They find out about it. All of a sudden, it’s a whole lot worse. It’s a whole lot worse. The thing is, folks, we are a nation of liars. We don’t believe politicians at all. I’m serious. I I I don’t When I hear a politician say something, I’m thinking, how did he just word that so that he could say that? Do you understand what I’m saying? How did he how did he phrase that so that he could get away with saying that? Jesus says just say yes or or no. Just say yes or no. Okay? No need to lie. And if you if you don’t take it from Jesus, take it from Proverbs. This all comes out of the same chapter. As a matter of fact, there’s one verse in the middle of it that I pulled out because it didn’t specifically mention liars. But the one that pulled that I pulled out was no harm comes to the godly, but the wicked have their fill of trouble. Well, if you lie, you’re going to have your fill of trouble. But here, he who speaks truth declares righteousness, but a false witness deceit. There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, but the tongue of the wise promotes help. The truthful lip shall be established forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment. Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but counselors of peace have joy. Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who deal truthfully are his delight.

Truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. By the way, is that is that phrase still used in courts of law? It is. Okay. Are you required to swear on a Bible in a court of law? Not anymore. Not anymore. Okay. But you are required to tell the truth.

Right? So when Jesus says this, he highlights the deceitfulness of swearing an oath or making a vow and the foolishness of such efforts. That’s why it’s called that’s that’s why it says right here uh for whatever is more than these is from the evil one. Come on guys, that’s evil. You don’t need to do that. You don’t need to do that. In Deuteronomy 23, you remember we looked at Deuteronomy 23 earlier. That’s one of the places where Jesus was quoting. He didn’t quote this verse, but Deuteronomy 23:22 is the very next verse. And it says, “But if you abstain from vowing, it shall not be a sin to you.” In other words, Jesus in the in the law in the Deuteronomy law, the law itself says don’t vow or if you do, make sure you vow and and follow through. The next verse says, “But if you abstain from vowing, it won’t be sin.” Well, hello. Jesus is saying something very similar, isn’t he? He’s saying, “You want to avoid sin, don’t make the vow, don’t swear.” Okay, going to wrap it up real quick here.

In other words, can’t speak the truth, just keep your mouth shut. Again, Proverbs echoes this over and over and over again. He who guards his mouth preserves life, but he who opens his lips shall have destruction. Whoever guards his mouth and keeps his tongue from keeps his soul from trouble. Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace. When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive. It’s kind of that take on Abraham Lincoln’s thing. Better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you’re a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, right? I mean, this is biblical, people. Keep your mouth shut. You don’t need to go on and on and on and on and on and say, “But I got to prove I got to prove to you that I’m right. I got to prove to you that I’m right.” No, you don’t. You don’t got to prove nothing.

Many people could not handle the truth that Jesus told. Uh, look at John 8. Go ahead and look at John 8. I’d like for you to have it open. I’m going to give you some of the verses up here, but I’d like for you to just have the whole thing open. In John 8,

Jesus is talking with a group of people who take exception to some of the things that he says. Okay.

The first one I want to point out is this. He says, “You will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” Do you see that? It’s in verses 31 and 32. 31B and 32. However, is mine different than yours? I flipped the order. Yes, I flipped the order. Why did I do that? Because we love to say the truth will set you free, but we never say what comes before that. Another way of saying what Jesus said in those two verses is you will know the truth. The truth will make you free if you abide in my word because then you are truly my disciples. See, that’s not what it says. Is it you will know the truth and the truth will make you free is what we hear all the time. I mean you say that all the time. You’ll know the truth and the truth. I said it to my kids. You will know the truth and the truth will make you free. But the thing is we are ignoring the fact that the truth Jesus is talking about is himself.

The truth that Jesus is referencing is the truth, the way, the life. Right. It’s not just, yeah, you’re going to know the truth about, you know, whether or not the Cowboys or the the Texans are going to win today. You’re going to know the truth about that. No, that that don’t mean nothing, man. That don’t mean nothing. Well, the Texans are going to win, but still that don’t mean nothing. You understand? No. What means something is Jesus is the truth. And if you know him, if you are his disciple, ooh, then you’re set free because he sets you free. That’s the whole thing about what he was saying here. If you if you drop down to verses 37 and 38, what he said was then you’re going to be free. And they came back and they said, “Well, we’re free. We’re Abraham’s kids and we ain’t never been enslaved.” Which was a lie to begin with. I mean, they were enslaved in Egypt. I mean, do they not even know what happened back then? You know, but they say, “We have never been enslaved.” He said, “No, no, no, no, no. I know that you’re Abraham’s seed. Yet, you are seeking to kill me because my word has no place in you. I speak the things which I have seen with my father. Therefore, you also do the things that you have heard from your father, like trying to kill me for speaking the truth. Wow. Wow.

And then he says, you belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language.

That’s his native tongue right there. For he is a liar and the father of lies. Yet because I tell you the truth, you don’t believe me.

Guys, the fact is when Jack Nicholson said truth, you can’t handle the truth. Now, there’s a lot of this world that can’t handle the truth. There’s a lot of this world that can’t handle the truth. But the fact But the fact is that if we know Jesus, we not only can handle the truth, we know the truth. Ain’t that right? Ain’t that right? Take that, Jack.

You can’t handle the truth. Father, we thank you that you have given us your truth that supersedes all of the the silly notions that we we proclaim as truth. Father, thank you that in your wisdom we can know the truth, even your son, Jesus Christ. And we can know the truth of your gospel. We can know the truth of your salvation. We can know the truth of your love. And Father, help us to rightly handle that truth. So many don’t know it. So much of the world does not know the truth. So many of our friends, co-workers, neighbors, relatives, so many people do not know the truth. Help us, Father, to proclaim the truth that is Jesus Christ. I pray in Jesus name. Amen.

This Bible study was presented to the Agape Life Bible Study Class of the First Baptist Church in Brenham, Texas, on Sunday, October 4, 2026. It is part of a series in a Bible study curriculum called Connect 360, published by the GC2 Press of the Baptist General Convention of Texas. The overall title of the current set of lessons, which covers Chapters 5-7 in the Book of Matthew, is Kingdom Power: The Sermon on the Mount. You can find print and digital versions of this series online at https://gc2press.org/kingdom-power-matthew-5-7-digital-study-guide/ . Handouts with class presentation content can be requested at: fromthebackporchintexas@gmail.com . Handouts are also available at: fromthebackporch.org .


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